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Monday, March 31, 2008

RABBI ARTHUR SEGAL: JEWISH SPIRITUALITY: 'TOPLESS JEWS'

RABBI ARTHUR SEGAL: JEWISH SPIRITUALITY: 'TOPLESS JEWS'
 
Dear Reader: From one of my students, in Brazil : Marco:
 
 Shalom:

I apologize if my English is not as eloquent as Rabbi Riemer's below post. It 
is not my first tongue. My rabbi's wife has helped shape this for me.

I read the below and many thoughts came to my head from my reading and my 
studies with my rabbi-teacher Dr Rabbi Arthur Segal this past year.

I remember the story in the Talmud of the two young boys asked, to see if 
they were able to participate in a minyon, where God is.
One pointed up to the ceiling, and the other went outside and pointed up to 
the heavens.
Both where considered by the head rabbis to understand the concept of Who  we
worship and eventually became famous rabbis themselves.

While we as adults understand that God is all around us, and resides in our 
hearts, [where ever we allow Him into our hearts], being 'Topless' can be 
defined as being Godless.

The whole purpose of study is to get closer to God and His will, and then 
understanding that all humans are His children and our siblings.
When we treat another human badly, we treat God, our Heavenly Father,  badly.
This does not please God. If we want to please God, my rabbi-teacher  tells
me, we need to treat God's children correctly.

Indeed the Talmud tells us that God would rather us treat our fellows 
correctly, then be strictly kosher or strictly watching Shabbat.

Rabbi Reimer and the other three rabbis quoted are correct.
We do many things to separate ourselves from God, from each other, and from 
life itself.

To me use of a laptop or a cell phone in a meeting with fellow humans is 
just another sign of what we humans have always done and what Judaism has been 
teaching us not to do.

Staying with Moses for a  moment, the  Torah is very clear that  he was too
busy working, to circumcise his two sons, and too busy working to  have
intimacy with his wife. Moses spent so little time with his sons they are  barely
mentioned in the Torah.

Moses had no modern electronics.
But he still had his own version of a laptop and a cell phone.

From the first Passover to the present we Jews have found ways to put 
ourselves back into bondage and to separate ourselves from God and from each  other.

Few of us  truly live day by day in the moment seeing every one of  God's
blessings. Few of us truly understand to be able to say to God that  You: 'open
up Your hand and satisfy the desire of every living being...God  is close to
all who call upon him sincerely' (Psalm 145).

If we truly had faith, trust and belief in God, my teacher  on-line taught me
last week, we would not be jealous of others. We would  know that God gives
us more than enough. He gives us exactly what we need. We  would revel in
others successes. We would not be like Korach and try to keep  Moses from sharing
his wisdom.

Jews  had a false god  7 weeks after the first Passover, the  Golden Calf.
We continued to do so through out the Tanach. We continue to do so today.  We
will work on Shabbat for gold, and ignore our families and God.

Using a cell phone or a laptop when one is with other humans, ignoring  them,
to either communicate with another human, but most likely do so to earn 
money, is just another way to worship an idol, (money) while ignoring God and  His
creations.

We have had 'topless' Judaism for a long time and we need Jewish Spiritual 
Renewal which my on-line rabbi is teaching me, and others, to understand that 
God is at the top of our lives. While we modern Jews have changed our prayer 
books and have taken the ban off women, all good things, we have developed an 
arrogance, a lack of humility, forgetting that what we have accomplished is
NOT  from our hand, but a loan from Him, to be shared, and not protected.

I pray for the day when Jews and all who call upon the name of God as their 
Rock and Redeemer, come to meetings, and come to human interactions , be they
in  person, or via email or web classes, Top-Full with God's love, compassion,
mercy, and wisdom. Amein.

Shalom.
Marco de Fonseca

EXECUTIVES ORDERED TO COME TO STAFF MEETINGS  TOPLESS                        
    Parshat Shemot
Rabbi Jack Riemer

I was innocently  minding my own business the other day, reading the business
section of the  newspaper, when I saw a headline that really shocked me.
It said:  Silicon Valley executives are told to come to staff  meetings
topless.

My first reaction to that headline was  anger.

How could any CEO dare issue such an order? How could any company  order its
workers to come to staff meetings topless?

It is a clear  violation of the Jewish laws of modesty. And it is a clear
violation of  American law as well. I was ready to reach for the phone and
call the  American Civil Liberties Union and protest, and then I decided to
read the  rest of the article.

This is what it said:
Meetings are sometimes  ---whether it be in business or in organizations. And
so what has happened  lately is that people have discovered a handy diversion
during staff  meetings. As laptops have grown lighter and easier to carry,
people have  discovered that they can take them along to staff meetings and
pretend to be  taking notes on their laptops while actually sending and
receiving messages,  or reading their e-mail, or playing solitaire, while the
meeting drones on  and on around them. CEOs are finding out that in this age
of wireless  internet and mobile e-mail, having an effective meeting is
becoming more and  more difficult. Laptops, Black Berrys, IPods and the like
keep people from  being fully present, even though they are physically
present at the meeting.  And therefore, more and more Silicon Valley
companies are ordering executives  to leave their laptops, or tops as they
are called in Silicon Valley slang,  behind on their desks when they come to
staff meetings.

It was not  easy at first for executives to get used to the idea of coming to
meetings  topless, i.e. without their laptops, but by now many of them have
gotten used  to it. Now they are learning how to look at each other and how
to connect  with each other during meetings instead of connecting via their
laptops with  websites or people a thousand miles away. And as a result, many
of the  companies in Silicon Valley report that their meetings have become
much more  productive.

When I read that, I decided not to protest and not to raise  any objections
over the fact that companies in Silicon Valley are requiring  their
executives to come to staff meetings without their laptops. Now my  only
complaint is with whoever wrote that misleading headline on the story  that
got me so upset.

Now I understand and agree with that CEO who ordered his or her staff  to
come to meetings without their laptops. For we live in a world in which  the
ever-increasing speed and power of these laptops enables us to toggle  back
and forth between tasks. The wireless revolution has turned every  laptop
into a mobile communications center. Darting back and forth among  multiple
screens, a person can be physically present at a meeting in  California while
simultaneously corresponding with someone on the other side  of the world.
But that does not make for productive meetings.

Scholars  who study the behavior of people at work say that it is
increasingly  difficult to get, and to hold, anyone's undivided attention.
Today, workers  seem to be more focused on the machines that they carry with
them wherever  they go than they are on the people with whom they are
supposedly meeting  face to face. It is a source of frustration to those
people who come to the  meetings in order to persuade their co-workers of
something, and it makes  teamwork very difficult.

I must tell you that part of me has some  sympathy for those who use-or who
are tempted to use-their laptops during  meetings. I don't know about you,
but I have been to one or two board  meetings in my time----not here, but
elsewhere---that were a little bit  boring, and I have been tempted, more
than once, to play xs and os, or to  doodle during someone's presentation.
And when people ask me why the Messiah  has not come yet, I am sometimes
tempted to tell them my theory which is that  the Messiah came already---but
that he couldn't get on the agenda, so he  left.

Let me tell you about three rabbis who, each in his or her own way,  arrived
at the same insight that these CEOs in Silicon Valley have arrived  at.

The first is Rabbi Lawrence Kushner of San Francisco. He looked at  the story
of Moses at the burning bush that we read today, and he noticed a  nuance in
the story that others, who may have read the story more quickly  than he did,
probably did not notice.
The story says that Moses was  tending the flock of his father-in-law and he
led them into the wilderness.  An Angel of the Lord speared to him in a
blazing fire out of a bush. He  gazed, and there was a bush all aflame---but
the bush was not consumed. Moses  said, I will turn aside to look at this
marvelous sight; why does this bush  not burn up? When the Lord saw that he
had turned aside to look, God called  to him out of the bush.

Rabbi Kushner asks a very simple question about  this passage. How long must
a person look at a burning bush before he notices  that it is not being
consumed? A minute? Two minutes? Five minutes? And how  many of us look at
anything at all for that amount of time?
If we did, he  says, who knows how many wonders we might notice too!
God waited until Moses  noticed, until Moses turned aside to look at this
wondrous sight, and then He  spoke to him. And so it is with us. If we are so
busy, if we are so rushed  and harried that we seldom pause to look---to
really look---at anything, is  it any wonder that we so seldom notice the
wonders of God?

Rabbi Jamie  Korngold of Boulder, Colorado, has the very same insight into
the story as  Rabbi Kushner has, but she phrases it in a more whimsical way.
This is her  version of what would happen---or to be more exact, of what
would not  happen---if Moses lived today.

As she tells the story, this is what  happened. Moses was tending the flocks
of his father-in-law, Jethro. He  drives the flock into the wilderness, and
comes to Horeb, the mountain of  God. He had always found this place
relaxing, and so he decided that this  would be a good place to take a break
and relax for a few minutes.

But  as he sat down to rest near a bush, Moses thought of all the things that
he  still had to do that way---all the things that were on his schedule. He
knew  that he needed to get home early that day, in order to change into his
dress  robes, and catch a caravan into the city, because he had a packed
afternoon  of important   of meetings ahead of him. He was trying to  figure
out how he could get all his work done in time so that he could get to  the
gym that night, and still get home in time, before his son Gershom went  to
sleep. Just then, his eye noticed something strange. There was a bush  right
in front of him, all aflame, and yet the bush was not being consumed by  the
fire! Moses opened his Dictaphone machine and makes a note to himself:  I
must come back here tomorrow, if I can find the time, in order to see  what
is going on here. And then he noticed that the battery on his machine  was
getting low, and so he made a second note to himself to be sure to go  on
line or go to Office depot and order some new batteries, first chance  he
got.

Just then his cell phone goes off. He grabbed the phone out of  his robe
pocket. It was a text message from his friend, Nathan, who always  seemed to
know what i was going on in the stock market a day before anyone  else did.
Moses read the message, which was written in the abbreviated  language that
people who send text messages often use: Wool futures 2 go up  tomorrow.
Don't sell your sheep 2 day. Call me L84.   

By the time Moses had read the message, he and his sheep are well  past the
bush and he has already forgotten all about the strange flames that  burned
but did not seem to be consumed. With his cell phone in hand, he calls  his
wife, Zipporah, just to check in.

Five minutes later, when  he gets off the phone, and took care of the call on
Call Waiting that has  been waiting for him, and sent an Instant Message to
deal with the caller's  question, he remembers the burning bush, but by now,
it was well behind him.  He was tempted to go back and look at it again, but
he realized that if he  did, he wouldn't have time to stop at Starbucks and
get a shot of caffeine  before his first meeting began. And so he sent an
Instant Message to the fire  department instead. The fire department sent a
crew, which put out the fire  at once.
Moses makes page 15 of the next day's newspaper for saving the  wilderness
from burning down, and that gave him something to talk about  during the
staff meetings that he went to that day. Meanwhile, God tried the  burning
bush routine a couple more times, but eventually God realized that  people
were just too busy to notice the miracle, and so He gave  up.
God thought of sending His message by e-mail instead, but Moses  didn't
recognize who the Sender was, and so he figured it must be spam, and  he
deleted it.

And that is why the Israelites stayed in Egypt  for such a long time, and why
Moses did so well in the shepherding business  that he eventually
conglomerated his father-in-law's flocks with the flocks  of many other
people, and went on the big board and became a high powered  executive on
Wall Street. But unfortunately, his home life was terrible,  because he never
had time for his wife and children, and, as a result, the  life of Moses was
a mixture of success and failure. He did at the age of  sixty, from a heart
attack that he got while in the middle of an important  staff meeting, and by
now his name is no longer remembered.
That is  the way Rabbi Korngold tells the story of Moses at the burning
bush slightly  adapted and barbessered.
Now, let me share with you the teachings of  one more rabbi, before I close.
His name was Rabbi Menachem Mendl of Kotsk. I  hope that you have heard about
him. If not, you should, for he was one of the  most exciting Jewish leaders
of the last few centuries. He was a bold, quick  tempered, impatient, lonely
and innovative thinker, and his life story and  his ideas are well worth your
attention. If you want to learn more about  him, both Elie Wiesel and Abraham
Joshua Heschel have written fascinating  accounts of his life, which I
heartily recommend that you read.

Rabbi  Menachem Mendl of Kotsk was drawn to another passage in the life of
Moses.  After the moment at Sinai, God says to Moses: Aley alay hahara,
viheyey sham  ==Come up to Me on the mountain and BE THERE.
Says the Kotsker: I  understand that God tells Moses to climb up the mountain
to Him. But why does  God then say to Moses: =And be there? Obviously, if
Moses climbs up the  mountain, he will be there? Why then do we need this
extra  phrase?

Rabbi Menachem Mendl of Kotsk answers his own question this  way: Anyone can
climb the mountain. That only takes strength and energy. The  real task is
=to be there=---to be completely there---to be in the moment  there---once
you arrive. Most people are focused on the reason why they have  come
someplace for a minute, perhaps for two minutes, perhaps for  five
minutes---and then they get distracted, and their minds go  wandering
somewhere else while their bodies remain on the mountain.
What  God was telling Moses---and by extension, us as well---was to be in  the
moment. Otherwise, you will be too distracted to hear the Voice of God or  to
notice His Presence or to pay attention to His teachings.
It is  not easy to be in the moment nowadays. There are so many  distractions
,
all around us and inside us. I think---if I dare say  so---that it may be
harder to be in the moment now than it was for Moses  then. After all, he had
no laptop and no cell phone.no BlackBerry and no IPod  to keep him from
concentrating on what was going on before his eyes. And so,  if Moses had to
be told, as the Kotsker claims, not only to climb the  mountain but to BE
there, then surely how much more must we learn how to stay  focused and how
to concentrate and how to live in the moment---we who live in  such a busy
and such a noisy and such a distracting world.

And so I have changed my mind. I am no longer upset with this CEO  who
ordered his executives to come to staff meetings  topless , as I was  when I
first saw that headline. Now that I understand what he meant, now that  I
understand that by topless he meant without laptops , I appreciate what  he
was trying to do.

And if I can speak for him, which I know that I  have no legal right to do,  I
think that Moses---at least the way that  Rabbis Kushner and Krongold and the
Kotsker understand him----would have  agreed with him too.
And so, I ask you in all their names---in the  names of Rabbi Kushner and
Krongold and the Kotsker, and in the name of Moses  and God as well---to
learn from today's sedra, to learn from the story of  what happened at the
Burning Bush, and from what might not have happened if  Moses had been too
preoccupied and too busy to pay attention to what is in  front of you, to
really see what is in front of you, and not just to glance  at it and move on
because you are too busy.
You know: there is a new  sign that is found nowadays at the door of almost
every sanctuary. We have  one here too. Have you seen it---or have you just
glanced at it but. The sign  says everything that I have been trying to say
in this sermon in just a few  words. It says: Please turn off your cell
phone or put it on vibrator before  you enter the sanctuary, because the
place that you are about to enter is  holy
I urge you to pay attention to that sign.  I urge you to  visualize a sign
like that, not only when you enter the sanctuary but when  you enter the
Shabbat as well.

For if we can only learn how to  do that, then we will not live such frantic
lives, and we will not have to be  told to go to staff meetings topless, the
way they now have to do in Silicon  Valley.
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