3:1. Akiva the son of Mahalalel would say: Reflect upon three things and you will not come to the hands of transgression. Know from where you came, where you are going, and before whom you are destined to give a judgement and accounting. From where you came--from a putrid drop; where you are going--to a place of dust, maggots and worms; and before whom you are destined to give a judgement and accounting--before the supreme King of Kings, the Holy One, blessed be He. The Talmud teaches that if we are not spiritual awakened, and are silly enough to hold grudges, we paint another person with our own defects. In other words, if one says, ''I do not like Moshe because he talks too much,'' chances are the complainer suffers from chronic oral logarrhea. The story is told of a rabbi invited to a home to read a short prayer service and to expound on Tractate Rosh Ha Shana, during the evening meal of the second night of Rosh Ha Shana. And as we have learned the Talmud clearly tells us this is not the Jewish New Year but the New Year for all mankind, and we all have one heavenly Father, one set of human parents, all made in God's image, and many other ways to teach us to love one another. So the rabbi doing what he was invited to do, speaks on these topics inviting everyone to participate. Low and behold, 7 months after this holiday, he hears from the hostess, that a fellow there, has a grudge against the rabbi, because he talked too much, especially to his friend, who was very interested in Jewish education. The fellow then admits he likes to be the center of attention at dinner parties to tell his jokes. If the rabbi knew the fellow wanted 'the floor' to tell some jokes, the rabbi would have gladly yielded. Rabbis are not mind readers. So the above mishna teaches us how we can avoid sinning....and holding a grudge against someone is a sin. Don't take ourselves so seriously. We come from a ''putrid drop'' from our fathers. Like it or not, this is how we started. Our drop could have just as easily ended up elsewhere. And where are each and everyone of us going to be ending? Food for worms and maggots. And becoming dust. Are the things we get upset about, that we allow to make hedges between one another, worth it? Will they really matter when we are dead and gone? Of course not. Keep this is mind the next time you have a chance of judging someone harshly, or decide to be loving and offering friendship instead. But the next words are confusing. Know... before Whom you are destined to give a judgment and accounting. We are to give a judgment on ourselves?? That's not the way we were taught the Heavenly Judge acted when we were in Hebrew school. Was it? The Talmud tells us that when we come to the heavenly court, we first get asked to judge someone else's life. After we foolishly judge another we are told we have the same defects of character and hence we have just passed judgment own our own failings. In reality, those of us who are not spirituality awakened, via Jewish Spiritual Renewal, www.JewishSpiritualRenewal.org , do this every day. So we are judged before we are give our accounting. Our accounting will be a list of all of our good deeds. But how we actually treat another human, how we judge others, whether with kindness or with harshness, determines how we are judged. We see the same idea in Mishna 3:16: "Retribution is extracted from a person, with his knowledge and without his knowledge." When we pass an opinion on someone, we know have made a rule that we have to live up to. Going back to Sanhedrin 14a, if a sect declares those with 10 years of study, including all of Talmud, not good enough to serve in their Temple, and their curriculum has little Talmud or Halakah study, having their rabbis miss-teach and mislead, doing the grave sin of lifne iver**, they have set themselves up for a greater level of judgment against themselves, then if they never judged in the first place. So we are left with a great insight on the human soul. We have the power of freedom of choice and are all made with the spark of God inside of us. We can become homo spiritus and turn that spark into an Aish ha Torah, a fire of Torah, or we can listen to our evil inclination and try to snuff it out and deny it, being nasty to folks, we don't like, because as the Talmud says, they only remind us of our own defects. So what this mishna is teaching us, that with our freedom of choice, we can choose life, for now, and eternity... by not judging others, by being loving and with chesed. When our souls come in front of our Heavenly Father, may we all live to 120 years, even with our faults, ''The only power on earth or heaven that can judge man is man himself. '' (see chapter 4 on How to do a Chesbon ha Nefesh, a moral accounting of your soul, in ''The Handbook to Jewish Spiritual Renewal: A Path of Transformation for the Modern Jew.'' ** Lifne iver means don't put a stumbling block before the blind. Obviously that law isn't there to literal keep folks from tripping the disabled. But it means in business, let us say a dental office, a person is blind, and the dentist cannot sell them crowns (caps) when cheaper fillings will do. In Judaism, most congregants are considered blind and unstudied. We cannot lead them astray and tell them they do not need shabbat, or that its ok to cheat on IRS forms that a shul fills out. Shabbat Shalom: |
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In The Handbook to Jewish Spiritual Renewal: A Path of Transformation for the Modern Jew, Rabbi Dr. Arthur Segal distills millennia of sage advice to reclaim your Judaism and your spirituality.
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